You know those people who go their whole lives without talking to anyone, but then show up at the funeral?

Mari, turn that control into a lecture, please. In your life you always have two options: you can be in control or let someone else control you. You are the only person able to make your decisions, following the direction you want. Only every time you let someone else control your life. Let me tell you something: never let what you can’t control control you. Take control of your own life and go in the right direction.